If you are on the lookout for a new lady in your life then you need to make sure that you are going to the right kind of places so that you can properly maximize your chances of meeting the woman of your dreams.

Sometimes it can be hard to know where to start and this means that we fall back into the same old patterns that have never really got us any luck in love before. The best place to start is to think about the type of lady that you would like to meet. If you use this as a base you should be able to think of some places that this sort of women is likely to frequent and you can take things from there. Say for example you are looking for an intelligent girlfriend who likes reading and literature then the most sensible place for you to go to meet this type of person would be to join a local book club or reading group. Or maybe you are looking for a woman who is really into outdoor sports, is this case a walker's club would be a great place to start.

To find the right some of woman for you, you need to identify the type of lady you are looking for first and then you can work backwards from there. That said it can sometimes be good to get out and meet as many people as you can in order to make sure that you get as much practice as possible talking to and getting to know the ladies. This means when you do eventually meet the woman of your dreams you will have had so much practice that you won't be hampered by nerves or feel self-conscious.

Another great reason to get out there and join new groups is that women like to date interesting men who have something to talk about over dinner. It makes a woman more likely to go out on a second date with you if she thinks that you have an interesting life and as a result the more hobbies you have the brighter your topics of conversation will be.

Joining a reading group or a walking club also makes sense because you will be in a natural and relaxed environment where people have things in common. When you join a club there is not the same pressure for you to chat people up as there would be in a bar and this means that women are not on the defensive and they will be more likely to have a conversation with you this way.

And the great thing about these sorts of places is that she will have probably have been given the exact same advice as you. If she is on the lookout for a new relationship then she might feel intimated going to a bar and therefore seek the comfort of a club where she knows she will have something in common with the other members. So it is very likely that women go to these places to meet men just like you!

In short there are all sorts of places where women may go in order to meet men. Bear in mind thought that if she is on the lookout at the gym then the type of man she is looking for probably has bulging biceps and trains daily. It is all about the type of place you meet as that says a lot about the type of personality of the person that you are meeting.