100Things that preschoolers should be able to do before going to school III:Learning to make friends

100 Things that preschoolers should be able to do before going to school III : Learning to make friends
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- We should encourage our children to have some contacts outside their families

19.
Learning to find their friends and establish contacts

20.
Learning about recognizing feelings

20.1 Learning to recognize or observe about other people's feeling

20.2 Learning how to share their own feeling & how to hide their own feeling sometimes


- Let your children share about their feeling to you & teach them why some feeling such as disappointed, sad can be happened in life

and how to confront with them.

21.
Learning to hold/respect & compromise other different ideas from other people

- Firstly, let our children show their ideas & wishes with their reasons

- Secondly, let them discuss with us which idea the best is, then teach them how to compromise with other wishes from other people

- Thirdly, when a result comes that their ideas or wishes could not be come, we should explain why we should do something different

from their ideas and make them feel confident that their wish anyway is accepted as well as later we can make it for them someday.

22.
Learning to respect other people's personal things or for example other children's playthings

- Children should learn to keep patient and learn how to behave when they see what they wish but it doesn't belong to them

23.
Learning to help other children

- They should learn this sentence 'May I help you something?'

- To be able to help other children is counted as one of abilities that children should have

- They should learn to recognize what situations should need Help

- When they are successful to offer their help and able to help, we should give them a compliment & thankfulness

- Anyway, we should not push them to help all times but should observe & support them to do when they feel good to Help too!

24.
Learning to find a best friend

- Do you have a best friend for your life? If you have or you wish, you know how much important is :)

- One friend can help your children develop themselves

- It is important that a best friend from our children should have some similar things to ours,

otherwise it would have some danger about competition between them or they cannot go together well because of some different interests.

Then the feeling of disappointment would be come and make their friendship get ended

- Technique: Let your children invite some friends to visit them at home & let them play together alone

25.
Learning to solve conflicts

- Children should learn to make a quarrel with solving its problem together

- Remember!, to make a quarrel and solving its problem in your family is your children's example that would build them up to do that

with other people in their society.Therefore, to see how you make a quarrel & solve it is like an important practise for your children

- If you are aggressive to make a quarrel, your children would do like that too

- We can set some rules for making a quarrel for training our children :


25.1 We breath quietly and speak with quietness & our normal voice

25.2 We quarel with words, not hands or feet

25.3 Everyone can talk

25.4 Everyone also lets others be able to talk

25.5 No one complains or gives bad words to others

25.6 Everyone can share how they feel & what annoys him or her

25.7 Everyone must say the truth

25.8 When a quarrel is finished, everyone gives his or her hand to each other and feel 'Friends' as same as before

Create Date : 25 กรกฎาคม 2557 Last Update : 25 กรกฎาคม 2557 19:23:05 น. Counter : 862 Pageviews.		1 comments
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