Leo in relationship and sex
The gambling instinct is inherent in all Leo natives and this will also apply to their attitude regarding affairs of the heart. These are individuals who tend to take risks and, sometimes, they will make mistakes. Indeed, many Leo subjects marry more than once. Being a Sign governed by the Element of Fire and ruled by the brazen Sun, the glorious optimism and warmth of Leo attracts similar type partners. When young, this Sign has no time or patience for the more timid sweetheart and those ruled by Leo will spend a great deal of time juggling with romantic prospects. Leo wants a partner of whom he or she can be proud. Thus, these natives are prone to fall in love with someone they admire. No sacrifice in the name of love is too great for Leo individuals but, once the loving has stopped, then any partner will need to beware since this Sign can be totally unforgiving once crossed. This may sound rather terrible but, in truth, it is not. Leo subjects are proud and sunny souls who radiate warmth and happiness, but they are often not sufficiently subtle to suspect the presence of unhappiness in those who are close to them. In short, they frequently fail to realize that all is not well in a relationship.
Leo natives are warm and supportive souls whose affections will continue to grow stronger the more they feel their partners care about them. Dramatically romantic, these natives are unafraid of romantic displays. However, since it is inherent in the Leo nature to judge self worth on what surrounds them, these subjects may be somewhat cricital of a partner's qualities, talents or appearance. While the personal values of Leo individuals will provide great self-confidence, these natives are continually disappointed in the actions and motives of others. Thus, they are somewhat destined to be disappointed in love at least once during a lifetime. Therefore, in matters of the heart, Leo subjects should be careful to exercise the greatest care and prudence in the selection of a life partner since any mistake in this area could mean the unhappiness of a lifetime. Any marriage while this native is still young...or one taken in a hasty manner...is inadvisable. Indeed, any form of long-term relationship should not be entered into by the Leo individual until he or she is well-settled in life and then only with a partner who is on an equal plane...both socially and intellectually. Nonetheless, that having been said, a Leo native will always come up fighting.
In brief summary, any relationship with the daring yet devoted Leo native will rarely prove to be dull. There is a need here for the Leo partner to be be lavished with attention, but he or she will reward any mate with riches in return. A slow and smouldering union which leads to mutual bliss is probably most desired by Leo individuals and they require a partner who can keep up with them and match their wits. That being absent, the risk of boredom and flight is great, since Leo has very high expectations. A partner who can understand and indluge the need of Leo to be the center of attention will be the one to stay the course and the ideal soul mate must understand the pleasure principle, being prepared to work hard to keep this Leo subject satisfied. In short, a Leo partner is rather high maintenance. He or she craves attention, nurturing and pampering. A mate has to not only be personally strong in himself or herself to enhance the partnership, but must also be willing to occasionally stand in Leo's shadow. Leo individuals will protect those they love to the very death and will be both generous and expressive in a long term union...provided that union is constantly stoked and fed. At their best, Leo partners are protective, adoring, playful, inventive, generous, supportive, sensual, warm and joyful. At worse, they are possessive, jealous, controlling, cold, cruel, selfish, egotistical and self-serving.
Leo and Aries
This is usually a marvellous combination. With both sides being emotional in their make-up, Leo will "lionize" an Aries partner. This is particularly true if Aries will allow Leo to hold the center of the floor on occasions. However, sharing the limelight on the part of Leo is also important, since Aries too will feel the need to be "on stage" every once in a while. There is little doubt that within the "den of the lion," the Aries mate will find a welcome home. The sexual compatability here could be legendary and infidelity kept to a minimum...possibly even eliminated altogether. This is because each will probably strive find what he or she wants from the other and there will be no physical compulsion to stray. Leo admires the aggressive tendencies of fiery contemporaries and since this is exactly what Aries subjects are are made of, it can be an ideal union.
Both individuals here have egos to burn and both like to lead. Aggressive Aries would never dream of taking second place and kingly Leo requires constant admiration. However, this partnership can work if Leo is allowed to "play emperor" and Aries is allowed to "play general." The trick is for neither to take the other all that seriously.
In terms of sexual compatability, this is a fine combustible match since both are fiery and romantic individuals. Aries is optimistic and open to life...Leo is generous and good-hearted. If neither tries to deflate the other and, if each can give room for compromise in the area of domination, then this should be an extremely happy combination.
Leo and Taurus
When Leo passion meets Taurus sensuality, there is often a volcanic physical attraction as each tests the strength of the other. Both signs are lovers of beauty and comfort, possessing high ideas, fidelity and a love of good food and music...in other words, both crave the best life has to offer. Given the money-management abilities inherent in the Taurus nature, this union could lead to a most royal lifestyle. However, tension between these two Fixed Signs is usually inevitable and Leo may play a dangerous game within this combination by denying his or her Taurus partner affection or sex. The focus in this match should concentrate on building emotional security and avoiding no-win emotional showdowns if it is to succeed. It is necessary for Leo to curb the tendency to give "regal commands" and learn to coax rather than order. The extravagance of the Leo nature and the possessiveness of the Taurus character often turn into bones of contention. All too often, Taurus quickly tires of the Leo craving for publicity, while Leo begins to wish that Taurus was not quite so conservative and uptight. Once arguments begin between Taurus and Leo, they can continue indefinitely since both will be stubborn and reluctant to give way. Nonehteless, both are serious workers and will probably have great respect for each other in that regard...but might not respect the way in which the other goes about his or her work.
In the long run, if this combination is to maintain, then the focus must be on similarities. As has been already mentioned, both of these signs are extraordinarily stubborn and need to cultivate flexibility. They must find something that both believe in together, so that each can stretch, grow and thrive. However, given that Taurus and Leo are intensely loyal and powerful signs, romance can follow suit, particularly when there is a common goal.
Leo and Gemini
Since Leo loves first with the heart and Gemini with the mind, this combination will soon find out that they are probably totally unsuited to each other. On the surface, there is likely to be great deal of mutual attraction. However, before much time passes, the passionate Leo is sure to clash with the unreasonable Gemini, who will undoubtedly complain that the Leo nature is too material, too possessive and far too demanding. Nevertheless, despite these drawbacks, there is reason for optimism regarding this pairing. If Leo is able to understand that Gemini may not always be around to provide the attention upon which this sign thrives...and Gemini can understand Leo's need to run the world...then this mixture of air and fire can prove to be a good one.
Not altogether a bad blend, the Gemini/Leo combination can complement one another. Generous Leo is usually willing to bend in whatever direction is needed...provided flattery leads the way...and both individuals possess a somewhat childlike, playful and fun-loving side which surfaces easily when they are together. There is also a mutual appreciation of drama and color, and each finds the other to be delightful and interesting in many areas. Nevertheless, Leo will invariably have difficulty in completely comprehending Gemini's desire for novelty, since it is inherent in the Leo character to make a committment and keep to it. In addition, Leo is a very proud sign with a sensitive ego and Gemini can be a merciless teaser, frequently not taking Leo seriously enough. On the Gemini side, Leo will most probably demand more adoration than Gemini is willing to give. Thus, though not necessarily the best blend in a romantic sense, the Gemini/Leo combination usually makes for an excellent friendship and will be an affectionate pairing between two people who truly enjoy each other's company and have many wonderful times together.
Leo and Cancer
In this combination, since Cancer desperately needs to be needed, Leo will find it easy to satisfy this need. In short, when a Leo native loves, then a Leo native cherishes. The Cancer individual's desire for sympathy, tenderness and emotional support can also be provided by the loving and warm-hearted Leo partner. However, Cancer's moodiness can present a problem in this pairing. Leo is positive and outgoing, generally an "up" personality...unless there has been a major affront to the inherent Leo pride. Thus, for this relationship to work, Leo must be given recognition, respect and appreciation. Since Cancer is not prone to be demonstrative, this could become a bone of contention between the two. That having been said, Cancer does have good intuition and will doubtless sense when things are not quite as they should be in the relationship. This will work well for Leo, since the Leo pride makes no allowances for weakness and tends to say nothing when matters are not going well.
Although this is a combination of vastly different temperaments, there is a good possibility for true caring within this mix. Both partners take life very personally...perhaps more personally than either might realize. This could be an unusually warm and loving bond. Leo is more dominant and will alsmost certainly take the lead in any relationship...which will be just fine with Cancer. When this is indeed a love match, then both partners will understand and know how to satisfy the basic emotional needs within one another. Each individual will require dedication and tender loving care, but while Cancer seeks stability and emotional harmony, Leo craves heartfelt compliments and sincere admiration. Both are fiercely loyal Signs, even to the point of possessiveness...Cancer for the sake of safety and Leo for the sake of self-confidence. However, each partner will be committed to an enduring and rewarding relationship and since the desires of both are similar, each could fill a very important void in the life of the other.
In short, this is rather favorable match, given that both are lovers of comfort and security, coupled with a mutual preference for the grand scale. In addition, both will enjoy having a lovely home and close-knit family. Leo is certain to bring flair and passion to this combination, while Cancer will undoubtedly display a sensitive and intense instinct to nurture. However, it is a "given" that the Leo partner will always be the bigger and bolder individual due to his or her vivid personality. Because both Signs here are so strong-minded, this pair must work constantly and attentively toward understanding and acceptance. Both of these individuals are inclined to take charge and many disputes may arise because of this. Nonetheless, as long as each is willing to reassure the other in practical and romantic ways of the importance of the relationship, then a happy medium can often be attained within this combination.
Leo and Leo
Since Leo is inherently a Sign with a strong and dominating character, this combination would probably not get along so well as others whose Signs are identical. Both partners here are rather inflexible which is almost sure to result in trouble. The male Leo will want to assume the role of leader, but will have to battle with the female Leo for this right since she will also wish to lead. In short, both partners will strive to be the "boss" in this relationship. It will be very difficult for this female to take orders from the male and vice versa. Thus, an already tense situation is certain to be aggravated even further. A career will also be very important to both and this could lead to competition between the pair. Since the male Leo tends to prefer his mate to be rather "girlie," this desire for a career could make him view the Leo female as being slightly unnatural.
Although there is no Sign of the Zodiac as warm-hearted and giving as Leo, these natives will always yearn to be the center of attention...but there can only be one center. Nonetheless, since a Leo individual tends to love with all of his or her heart, this trait could go far in overcoming some of the worse aspects associated with this Leo/Leo combination. The love of "show" will likely result in a home which is akin to a showplace for friends and family to admire, but since these natives generally gamble with life and enterprises, the monetary affairs of this union is apt to be unstable to say the least. Thus, perhaps the desire for both partners to have a career is a necessary component for a successful relationship...one partners standing a chance of continuing to pay the bills in the event the other partners fails.
This Sign is associated with a strong sex drive and thus, both partners here will be compatible. However, this could lead to an overactive sex life which may branch out into somewhat perverse directions...totally devoid of love unless checked and kept within bounds. In short, this combination can result in an intense relationship driven by lifelong love or lifelong hate.
Leo and Virgo
In general, Virgo natives are not attracted to Leo subjects. There may well be an intial attraction on the part of Leo due to an unfilled need for constant flattery which caused the Leo individual in question a rare moment of feeling inferior. Virgo may have viewed the crestfallen expression of Leo as that of a soul in trouble and, since Virgo is the helpful Sign, would have been most eager to provide aid, not expecting to see a totally different person once the Leo native had regained his or her self-confidence. The Virgo partner will be thrifty with money, whereas Leo is much more generous and the differences here regarding finances will include a vast array of things...everything from planning a budget to putting money away for the future.
Leo individuals tend to live for the moment while Virgo exists in the mental world of the future. Thus, these two differing opinions is sure to be the cause of much tension. Critical Virgo is likely to make cutting remarks which will deeply wound the Leo partner, particularly if the Virgo individual is displeased regarding some type of extravagence on the part of the Leo native. Unlike Leo, Virgo subjects consider recreational pursuits to be a waste of time...time which could be much better spent in reviewing plans for the future...but Leo natives would rather be engaging in fun activities (hosting a party or going out with friends, for example). Thus, the attitude of both partners in this respect will go far in breaking up the relationship. The fiery sexuality of Leo here will fail to be matched by Virgo since Virgo is rather easily satisfied and has no need for games or fantasies. Approach to the earning power of each may also be a source of irritation to the Virgo partner, being a Sign which can work long and hard hours barely making a living while waiting for one of Leo's wild schemes to pay off. In short, the Leo/Virgo relationship will be a shaky one at best and unlikely to maintain unless tolerance is the main ingredient of the union.
Leo and Libra
Both Leo and Libra are exceptionally warm characters, but the compatibility here seems to be lacking. Leo enjoys a good fight and any arguing match will doubtless help this individual to "clear the air." However, such disputes are perceived threatening to the peace-loving and harmonious Libra native. Any attempts on the part of Libra to discuss differences in a calm manner will be met with Leo's fiery temper...something the Libra partner will find ugly, unbalanced and uncongenial. Leo subjects are prone to delay facing any decision-making unless it involves a pressing concern and the Libra native will likely perceive this attitude as being irresponsible and unloving. Thus, even more friction is provoked.
Those governed by Libra tend to worry about a loss of youth and personal attractiveness. Therefore, they are prone to flirt with members of the opposite sex...usually for reassurance when a positive response is received. Such behavior provokes a strongly possessive and jealous streak in the Leo partner, who will doubtless horrify the Libra native in question with violent outbursts of temper regarding what Libra considers to be "harmless" actions. Both partners are likely to be "on-again off-again" workers, each spending a great deal of time simply "lazing around" and doing nothing. However, since neither partner is likely to realize this as a personal trait, the end result is often a hurling of insults regarding the other's laziness.
In terms of sexual desire, the tastes here are rather similar. Libra needs glamor and fantasy, looking to his or her mate to supply such and, if this need is not met, then the Libra partner will probably go in search of someone new. The Leo approach to sex could be a straight-forward and direct one which, with a different partner, might well result in a trip within the realm of fantasy, but with Libra, this is unlikely to come to fruition given the many hours this couple will spend arguing and bickering. In short, this is not a promising combination of Signs in terms of a romantic union and indeed, may even produce the kind of situation which brings about spousal abuse.
Leo and Scopio
Scorpio natives are prone to dissect everyone and everything which happens to fall under their watchful eyes. However, in this combination, the Scorpio subject is likely to be highly insulted should the Leo partner attempt to do the same thing. Leo individuals have an open manner of speaking but seldom reveal everything about themselves. They like to hold back certain things which results in the Scorpio partner becoming indignant...although he or she will be equally as secretive (or even more so) and refuse to fully open up under any circumstances. In essence, those ruled by Scorpio have a difficult time in finding a suitable partner from any Zodiac Sign due to the overly-demanding and overbearing ways which are inherent in these natives.
Scorpio expects total obedience and an absorbtion in his or her work and life...often to the suppression of Leo's personal desires. This leads to the Leo partner experiencing much unhappiness and bitterness. Scorpio will doubtless dictate to Leo how the money may be spent, but will have no qualms in spending for thing that are personally wanted. It is indeed true that Leo is somewhat notorious for being extravagent, but Scorpio will demand that any such spending first be "cleared" with him or her. The sexual appetites of Scorpio are somewhat infamous for being overactive, so this aspect of the relationship may compensate the Leo partner for many other things, but this is also an area where the Leo partner is likely to be expected to give way to the wishes of Scorpio and, when it is noticed by the Leo partner that Scorpio is reluctant to reciprocate, Leo will doubtless begin to feel hurt and rejected. In short, this will be a rather storm-tossed union at best.
Leo and Sagittarius
Natives of both Leo and Sagittarius are blessed with the same warm, generous and loving characteristics, but Leo will need to learn that Sagittarius "gives" to everyone with no one person capturing his or her exclusive attention for very long. In short, the Leo partner could very easily end up with a broken heart from this union. Sagittarius is apt to come up with some wild ideas or huge gamble with a view to making a great deal of money and will doubtless entice Leo's support in this endeavor. However, should everything fall through or losses prevail, although the Sagittarius partner will be grateful for the love and support offered by Leo, it is inherent in the Sagittarius nature to make the Leo partner also share in the blame for such failure.
Sagittarius individuals must have "space" in order to exercise the personal freedom which is so loved by this Sign. These natives simply fail to understand why the Leo partner is prone to engage in fits of jealousy over what are personally perceived to be "harmless flirtations." However, paradoxically, the Sagittarius subject will be very possessive of the Leo partner. Despite being an individual who is fond of the outdoors and something of a sports enthusiast, the Sagittarius partner will not mind if Leo prefers to remain at home in comfort...provided they can come to an agreement on other recreational pursuits to be undertaken together. If the Leo partner here can refrain from trying to "tame" the Sagittarius native and does not condemn and/or argue over the sexual indiscretions that might be committed, then the Sagittarius partner may someday decide that there is no reason to look elsewhere for the satisfaction that can be found at home. The Leo/Sagittarius union does have the potential to be a rewarding relationship...as long as the love and desire is there.
Leo and Capricorn
In areas of everyday life, there could not be two different personalities than those of Leo and Capricorn. Leo loves clothes, the very best furniture and is constantly seeking the status symbols of life. Capricorn could truly not care less about such things, finding the simple life much more attractive and believing that to save for the future is of paramount importance. The style of "show" inherent in the Leo character will make the simplest of outings appear to the more thrifty Capricon partner as though it cost a fortune...and this will likely be the major source of woes associated with this union.
Natives of Capricorn experience periods of wanting to be alone, particularly when he or she feels under too much pressure, or the arguments become too intense. Under such circumstances, it is not unusual for these subjects to disappear for days, leaving the Leo partner to conduct a panicked and worried search. Meanwhile, the Capricorn individual will likely be totally unconcerned regarding the furor he or she has caused and too many of such vanishing episodes will doubtless eventually wreck the nerves of the highly-strung Leo individual. Capricorn individuals find it difficult to ever see the "brighter side" of life, whereas Leo natives are basically "cock-eyed optimists." Thus, this combination of Signs could well be at odds over even the most minor of things. In terms of sexual compatibility, Leo approaches sex in a rather light-hearted and fun-loving manner, whereas Capricorn is straightlaced and serious. Over time, the Capricorn partner may loosen up somewhat in this area, but that is by no means a certainty. Capricorn consider the Leo desire for intimacy to be rather overindulgent...something such natives may find irritating since it is inherent in this Sign to believe in moderation of all things.
Leo and Aquarius
The inherent aloof nature of Aquarius will probably present a challenge to the Leo native here, and may possibly be the "drawing card" which first brings this couple together since Leo is sure to believe that the Aquarius individual is truly quite warm-hearted despite that "frosty" exterior. In truth, for this relationship to work, Leo will have to learn and accept that the Aquarius partner will never be as warm-hearted and generous with self as Leo would like or expect. Both of these subjects are proud individuals with fixed opinions. Thus, there are likely to be many arguments. Being a humanitarian, Aquarius subjects are not overly interested in material gain, whereas Leo natives strive for success in financial matters and have little patience for Aquarius ideals...ideals which Leo considers to be unrealistic.
The lower type of Aquarius native is apt to be rather cowardly in life and will never confront anything, excepting violent quarrels with his or her spouse. The second this cowardice is noticed by the Leo partner, there is sure to be a loss of respect which will send the Leo partner out of the relationship in search of a mate he or she can respect. In terms of sexual compatability, this is likely to be rather unsatisfactory for the Leo partner. Aquarius natives can...and will...find others who capture their interests, leaving Leo frustrated, regarding the Aquarius partner as an inhuman and uncaring soul.
Leo and Pices
Pisces natives tend to give the impression that they need to be protected or "mothered" and this could be the initial attraction for Leo individuals. However, Leo is sure to get a big surprise when the Pisces partner suddenly becomes positive and takes any actions necessary on his or her own behalf. If Leo should persist with the union and become involved in a long-term relationship, this can lead to drastic effects on the Leo partner since Leo natives always like to know exactly where they stand in any situation. Both partners here will be vain individuals and share in the love of extravagant clothing...but that is about as far as the sharing will go.
Those governed by Pisces are generous with love and affection but, on occasion, may tune-out the Leo partner and retreat into a small and quiet world where personal problems can be resolved and solitary decisions be made. Under such circumstances, the Leo partner is likely to feel puzzled, hurt, left out and frustrated at such treatment. Thus, it is inherent in the Leo nature to indulge wholeheartedly in a round of parties and friends in an effort to combat such feelings. This may result in a Pisces partner who is perplexed and irritated at the Leo reaction. However, at the end of day, it is the Leo native who will be deeply hurt and possibly even a nervous wreck, since the ability of Pisces to employ this Sign's infamous intuition can disconcert the Leo partner and Leo will have no personal secrets he or she has not shared with this Pisces partner. The sexual relationship here could be the thing to make or break this union. Both partners will be highly-sexed and enjoy the romantic times spent together. In order to keep Leo happy, the Pisces partner must learn to control the inherent changeable moods and keep such moods separate from the lovelife. If the Leo native is able to accept an individual governed by a somewhat weaker Sign as a partner, then this relationship could work out rather well...but the Leo/Pisces combination will never be one of the strongest unions.
When it comes to matrimony, Leo individuals are probably most in tune with those
signs which also fall under the jurisdiction of the Element of Fire...namely Aries and
Sagittarius. Sagittarius would provide humanity and understanding to the partnership
coupled with a restless and go-ahead quality which strongly appeals to Leo. This is a
combination which would probably engage in many fights but the individual tastes are
truly not very far apart and the Sagittarius view of life in general conincides to a
high degree with that of Leo. Aries could provide much "go" and ambition to a
partnership with Leo...qualities which Leo greatly admires. The aims in life here are
likely to be exceedingly compatible, as are the methods for achieving those goals. On
the whole, the Leo/Aries combination would be a happy one...although two such
strong-minded types are sure to fight on occasion. Other suitable but less favorable
matches include Gemini and Libra.
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