1.Find who you are and define yourself using the word of God as your compass and your guide.
2.Sever ties with your past and by all means avoid being fixated on it.
3.An attitude can either be wrong or right but stop caring about how others percieve you, especially when you know that what you are doing is right.
4.Character is important so maintain honesty, integrity, openess and authenticity. You will make mistakes but dont beat up on yourself, just be honest and speak truth at all times.
5.Avoid being so uptight and practice ways to keep you in a relaxed mode. Stop worrying about the things you have no control over, which by the way is most things, most of the time.
6.Be responsible for yourself and boost your own self-esteem. The Bible tells us how David often encouraged himself in the Lord. If no one is telling you wonderful things about you, do it for yourself. Tell yourself how woderful, beautiful and special you are.
7.Craft your own sense of style and individuality. It could be the clothes you wear, your hairstyle, makeup, your manner of speaking, or simply your way of getting things done. Even though it may be different from mainstream or what is considered norm, so long as the outcome is positive.
8.Dont ever compare yourself to others. You are not a copy, you are an original. Craft your own individuality and sense of style and just be yourself. Trying to be someone else will only frustrate you and make you unhappy and miserable.
QUOTES ABOUT BE YOURSELF
◦Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind dont matter, and those who matter dont mind. ~ Bernard M. Baruch
◦Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else. ~ Judy Garland
◦You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. ~ Maya Angelou
◦A girl should be two things: who and what she wants. ~ Coco Chanel
◦Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no ones definition of your life, but define yourself. ~ Harvey Fierstein
◦About all you can do in life is be who you are. Some people will love you for you. Most will love you for what you can do for them, and some wont like you at all. ~ Rita Mae Brown